The Only Thing Better Than Finding A Guy Is Finding The Right Guy

Introduction

I’m a 30-year-old woman who has never been in a serious relationship. I don’t have any kids, and my friends are starting to get married and have babies. My parents are getting older and want me to settle down before they’re gone. But what if I can’t find the right guy? Am I doomed forever? What if no one will ever love me? What if the only thing that awaits me is spinsterhood and loneliness?

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Be prepared to wait.

Finding the right guy probably won’t come along overnight. If you’re looking for something special, it will take time and effort—but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your search. You must keep your standards high and be patient while waiting for Mr. Right to appear.

Some people think that if they don’t find someone immediately, there’s no point in looking at all; they’ll settle for whoever’s available or first on the scene. That isn’t true! It’s better than paying for someone who isn’t right for you because he is available at this very moment; if he doesn’t treat you well when times are good, what about when things get rough? Will he still be standing by your side when life gets tough?

Please take a deep breath, and get to know him slowly.

Once you get to know him, take a deep breath and relax. Don’t rush into anything. Don’t jump into a relationship that feels wrong. You’ll want to be alone sometimes, and that’s OK. It’s healthy.

Keep your standards high.

The truth is, you will only find the right guy if you set your standards high.

It would help if you were prepared to wait a while before finding Mr. Right, and sometimes that means putting off marriage or other major life decisions. If a guy isn’t right for you, then he’s not right for you, even if everyone thinks he is. You may have to break up with him even though it would mean disappointing your family or friends who love him and want you two together.

If someone pressures you into marrying someone because of their schedule (like wanting grandchildren), then don’t do it just because they want what’s best for them rather than what’s best for your relationship and future happiness as a couple.

Don’t be afraid to take your time.

You’re allowed to take your time. You don’t need to rush into anything, and it’s OK if you take a break from dating if you need one. It’s also OK not to feel anything at all. If things aren’t clicking with someone, listen to yourself and permit yourself to walk away gracefully.

Ditch the checklist!

When you think of the perfect mate, what do you imagine? Someone tall, dark and handsome? A neat freak? That they’re a foodie or an enthusiast of your favorite hobby?

Don’t let anyone tell you there’s only one way to find love. The truth is that being yourself—and loving yourself—is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter if the guy has a six-pack or stays up late playing World of Warcraft; if he makes your heart beat faster just by talking to him, he’s worth getting to know.

The problem comes when we look for a checklist of qualities instead of someone who brings out the best in us (and vice versa). When we get so caught up in finding someone with all the attributes on our list, we miss out on great relationships because we are too busy trying to make things work instead of giving it time.

You can’t force someone into loving you; they must want it as much as you do. You’ll only end up feeling like an object or, worse: trapped by someone who doesn’t have any passion for your relationship!

Don’t be desperate.

Many women who are looking for love are desperate to find it. We feel we need a man in our lives, or something is missing, but this isn’t true. You can have a fulfilling, successful life without being in a relationship. Being single doesn’t have to mean you’re lonely or lonely-looking; it just means that you’re happy with yourself and your life as it is right now!

Relax; you’ll find someone when you least expect it!

You’re not alone. If you’re single and frustrated, many of us out there haven’t found the right guy yet. But that doesn’t mean we can’t have fun until that special someone comes along.

So what if it’s been a few years since your last relationship? It doesn’t mean your love life is over forever—and even if it was, would that be so bad? There are plenty of people who live their lives alone by choice; being alone doesn’t mean being without happiness or fulfillment or love in any way at all! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about not having someone special in your life; instead, celebrate what makes YOU happy and try to enjoy this time while waiting for the right person to come along!

Conclusion

When I was younger, I thought everything would fall into place if I waited long enough. Now that I’m older and wiser, I know that’s not always the case. It can be tough to stay when you feel like the right person is out there but just hasn’t found his way back to you yet. But remember: patience is key! The best relationships happen organically—when it feels right for both people involved—so don’t worry about being in a rush. Make sure your standards are high and keep an open mind; sometimes, we find love when we least expect it!

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